RELATIONSHIPS
REIMAGINED

“Break the Cycle of Unhealthy Patterns and Create Safe Relationships”

Hi! I am Eric Bensoussan
Transformational Relationship Coach.

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“The Relationship You Have With Yourself
Sets The Tone For Every Relationship you Have”

Eric

Hi! I’m Eric,

My passion lies in understanding how love and
relationships work from psychological, emotional,
spiritual, and scientific perspectives. My mission is to help
individuals and couples create real, healthy relationships
that last by focusing on the most important relationship—
the one with yourself.

Your journey with me

Relationships don’t have to feel like a constant struggle.

If you keep running into the same painful patterns—miscommunication, emotional walls, or cycles of hurt—it’s time to break free. These patterns don’t just happen; they are shaped by past experiences, unhealed wounds, and unconscious beliefs. I help individuals and couples uncover and transform these deeper dynamics so they can stop repeating the past and start building relationships rooted in trust, connection, and emotional safety.

Healing begins with awareness. When you recognize how past wounds shape your present relationships, you gain the power to change them. Through this process, you’ll develop emotional resilience, shift from frustration to clarity, and create meaningful connections that feel safe, fulfilling, and truly authentic. Whether you’re rebuilding trust, navigating a major transition, or seeking deeper intimacy, I provide the guidance and support to help you create the relationships you truly deserve—starting with the one you have with yourself.

Some people  call me the Pattern Breaker or Pattern Detective because I have a unique ability to quickly identify the unconscious cycles keeping people stuck in their relationships. Once you see these patterns, you gain the power to change them.

 

I believe that the relationship you have with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship in your life. 

Like many, relationships have been my greatest challenge and my greatest teacher. I spent years caught in recurring patterns of heartbreak, unaware of how deeply unconscious beliefs and conditioning shaped my experiences. Through deep self-work, I unraveled those patterns, healed emotional wounds, and learned how to create relationships that thrive.

This personal transformation is what makes my work so powerful today. I don’t just teach theories—I’ve lived this journey, and I know exactly what it takes to break free from painful cycles. Now, I use that experience, combined with years of training and coaching, to help others do the same. And like anyone committed to growth, I’m still learning every day how to build a thriving relationship with my partner.

I’ve been where you are—feeling broken, lost, and overwhelmed. Repeating the same patterns, feeling triggered in the same ways, and wondering why nothing changes was exhausting.
I understand the inner dialogue that can keep you stuck, making it hard to see a way out. But I discovered that even in the darkest moments, there’s a spark of hope waiting to be found. My journey taught me that healing is possible, change is
within reach, and you have the power to create a life filled with purpose, safety, connection, and authenticity. 

I SPEAK ENGLISH & FRENCH

How can I help you?

Services

RELATIONSHIP COACHING

for Individuals
  • I feel stuck in my relationships—whether with my partner, family member, or colleagues—and don’t know how to move forward.
  • I want to improve my relationships but don’t know where to start.
  • I feel disconnected from myself and others.
  • I struggle with self-doubt and question my worth.
  • I have difficulty trusting others, or I fear being vulnerable.
  • Why do I keep attracting unhealthy or unfulfilling relationships?
  • I feel lonely, even when I’m with someone.
  • I’m longing to reconnect with my ex but don’t know how to navigate this.

DIVORCE or BREAKUP COACHING

  • I’m overwhelmed by the emotional rollercoaster of a divorce or breakup.
  • I feel lost and unsure of who I am without this relationship.
  • I’m drowning in pain, anger, sadness, or confusion and need clarity.
  • I feel like I’ll never be happy again or find love.
  • Letting go feels impossible—I’m stuck in anger or grief.
  • I want to rebuild my life, but I don’t know how or where to begin.
  • I need hope and guidance to see that things can get better.

COUPLES COACHING

  • We feel stuck in patterns of conflict or miscommunication.
  • The passion and connection we once had feel like they’ve faded away.
  • Are we too far gone, or is there still hope for us?
  • One of us is open to coaching, while the other feels resistant or uncertain.
  • She: I feel like I’ve tried everything—I’m not sure if I should stay or leave.
  • He: I don’t know how to change or show up in the way my partner needs me to.
  • We need help finding clarity, connection, or a path forward.

What Would It Feel Like
to Work Together?

Transformational
Journey

This isn’t about slapping on a quick fix. Working with me means reconnecting with your inner strength. You’ll gain awareness and tools to navigate life’s challenges with confidence, fostering healthier relationships with yourself and others.

Safety and Trust

You’ll feel genuinely heard and accepted, free from judgment. This is a space where you can be your authentic self, share openly, and feel safe exploring your emotions and experiences
Clarity and insights
I help you see the patterns and dynamics that may be holding you back. Together, we uncover the root causes of your struggles, providing fresh perspectives that bring clarity to confusing situations.
Authentic connection
Our work is rooted in genuine connection. I bring my full presence, empathy, and intuition to our sessions, creating a dynamic partnership focused on your growth and healing.

Compassionate challenge

While I’m here to support you, I also gently challenge you to go deeper. Growth often happens outside your comfort zone, and I’ll be there to encourage and guide you every step of the way.
Commitment to growth
Growth is about more than challenges —it’s pausing to honor how far you’ve come. We’ll reflect on your progress and celebrate the resilience you’ve shown along the way.

If you’re ready to shift from feeling overwhelmed to empowered, from disconnected to deeply connected, let’s begin this journey together. It’s not just about working through problems; it’s about reimagining what’s possible for you and your relationships.

How about having a powerful
​first 45 minute conversation?

You’ll get a sense of how I work and how my approach can help you move forward. Together, we’ll dive into your current challenges, explore what’s really going on beneath the surface, and start identifying steps toward creating the connection, clarity, and fulfillment you’re seeking.
If you’ve been feeling stuck or unsure where to turn, this is your starting point. Let’s talk about what’s possible.

Special Introductory Rate: $50 USD

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FAQs
Knowing When to Get
Professional Help

Sometimes, no matter how hard you try, the same issues keep coming up.

Communication feels strained, conflicts go unresolved, or you feel distant and disconnected. These are signs it might be time to reach out for support.
With a fresh perspective, I can help you uncover what’s really driving these challenges and provide practical tools to improve how you connect and communicate.

Together, we can explore the dynamics in your relationships—whether with a partner, family member, friend, or colleague—so you can start making meaningful progress.
Seeking help isn’t a sign of failure; it’s a courageous step toward clarity, healing, and stronger, more fulfilling relationships—both with yourself and the people who matter most.

Relationship coaching is a professional service that helps individuals and couples improve their relationships by identifying challenges, enhancing communication, and setting goals for a healthier connection. It can help you navigate conflicts, strengthen emotional bonds, and build fulfilling relationships.

Therapy often focuses on healing past trauma and mental health concerns, while relationship coaching is goal-oriented and forward-focused. A coach provides strategies, guidance, and accountability to help you improve your relationship dynamics, but does not diagnose or treat psychological conditions.

Absolutely! Relationship coaching is not just for couples. If you’re single, coaching can help you understand your relationship patterns, boost confidence, and develop the skills needed to create and maintain a healthy, fulfilling relationship in the future.

The timeline varies depending on your goals and challenges. Some clients see improvements in just a few sessions, while others benefit from ongoing support over several months. Your coach will help create a personalized plan to ensure meaningful progress.

Relationship coaching can address a wide range of topics, including communication skills, conflict resolution, emotional intimacy, setting boundaries, trust issues, and dating strategies. Sessions are tailored to your unique needs and goals.