RELATIONSHIPS
REIMAGINED
“Break the Cycle of Unhealthy Patterns and Create Safe Relationships”
Hi! I am Eric Bensoussan
Transformational Relationship Coach.
Lasting Change
This FREE guide gives you the exact insights, tools, and strategies I’ve used to help individuals and couples transform their relationships – without overwhelm or guesswork.
“The Relationship You Have With Yourself
Sets The Tone For Every Relationship you Have”
Hi! I’m Eric,
My passion lies in understanding how love and
relationships work from psychological, emotional,
spiritual, and scientific perspectives. My mission is to help
individuals and couples create real, healthy relationships
that last by focusing on the most important relationship—
the one with yourself.
Your journey with me
Relationships don’t have to feel like a constant struggle.
If you keep running into the same painful patterns—miscommunication, emotional walls, or cycles of hurt—it’s time to break free. These patterns don’t just happen; they are shaped by past experiences, unhealed wounds, and unconscious beliefs. I help individuals and couples uncover and transform these deeper dynamics so they can stop repeating the past and start building relationships rooted in trust, connection, and emotional safety.
Healing begins with awareness. When you recognize how past wounds shape your present relationships, you gain the power to change them. Through this process, you’ll develop emotional resilience, shift from frustration to clarity, and create meaningful connections that feel safe, fulfilling, and truly authentic. Whether you’re rebuilding trust, navigating a major transition, or seeking deeper intimacy, I provide the guidance and support to help you create the relationships you truly deserve—starting with the one you have with yourself.
Some people call me the Pattern Breaker or Pattern Detective because I have a unique ability to quickly identify the unconscious cycles keeping people stuck in their relationships. Once you see these patterns, you gain the power to change them.
I believe that the relationship you have with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship in your life.
Like many, relationships have been my greatest challenge and my greatest teacher. I spent years caught in recurring patterns of heartbreak, unaware of how deeply unconscious beliefs and conditioning shaped my experiences. Through deep self-work, I unraveled those patterns, healed emotional wounds, and learned how to create relationships that thrive.
This personal transformation is what makes my work so powerful today. I don’t just teach theories—I’ve lived this journey, and I know exactly what it takes to break free from painful cycles. Now, I use that experience, combined with years of training and coaching, to help others do the same. And like anyone committed to growth, I’m still learning every day how to build a thriving relationship with my partner.
I’ve been where you are—feeling broken, lost, and overwhelmed. Repeating the same patterns, feeling triggered in the same ways, and wondering why nothing changes was exhausting.
I understand the inner dialogue that can keep you stuck, making it hard to see a way out. But I discovered that even in the darkest moments, there’s a spark of hope waiting to be found. My journey taught me that healing is possible, change is
within reach, and you have the power to create a life filled with purpose, safety, connection, and authenticity.
I SPEAK ENGLISH & FRENCH
How can I help you?
Services
RELATIONSHIP COACHING
- I feel stuck in my relationships—whether with my partner, family member, or colleagues—and don’t know how to move forward.
- I want to improve my relationships but don’t know where to start.
- I feel disconnected from myself and others.
- I struggle with self-doubt and question my worth.
- I have difficulty trusting others, or I fear being vulnerable.
- Why do I keep attracting unhealthy or unfulfilling relationships?
- I feel lonely, even when I’m with someone.
- I’m longing to reconnect with my ex but don’t know how to navigate this.
DIVORCE or BREAKUP COACHING
- I’m overwhelmed by the emotional rollercoaster of a divorce or breakup.
- I feel lost and unsure of who I am without this relationship.
- I’m drowning in pain, anger, sadness, or confusion and need clarity.
- I feel like I’ll never be happy again or find love.
- Letting go feels impossible—I’m stuck in anger or grief.
- I want to rebuild my life, but I don’t know how or where to begin.
- I need hope and guidance to see that things can get better.
COUPLES COACHING
- We feel stuck in patterns of conflict or miscommunication.
- The passion and connection we once had feel like they’ve faded away.
- Are we too far gone, or is there still hope for us?
- One of us is open to coaching, while the other feels resistant or uncertain.
- She: I feel like I’ve tried everything—I’m not sure if I should stay or leave.
- He: I don’t know how to change or show up in the way my partner needs me to.
- We need help finding clarity, connection, or a path forward.
What Would It Feel Like
to Work Together?
Transformational
Journey
Safety and Trust
Compassionate challenge
If you’re ready to shift from feeling overwhelmed to empowered, from disconnected to deeply connected, let’s begin this journey together. It’s not just about working through problems; it’s about reimagining what’s possible for you and your relationships.
Book your
Relationship Clarity
Breakthrough Session
Ready to get clear on what’s keeping you stuck—and finally shift the emotional dynamic that’s been draining you?
The Relationship Clarity Breakthrough Session is a safe, high-impact space to explore what’s really going on and what’s possible when you stop trying to fix things from the surface and start reconnecting from the heart.
You’ll get a sense of how I work and how my approach can help you move forward. Together, we’ll dive into your current challenges, explore what’s really going on beneath the surface, and start identifying steps toward creating the connection, clarity, and fulfillment you’re seeking.
If you’ve been feeling stuck or unsure where to turn, this is your starting point.
Testimonials
Eric is an exceptional coach. I felt very lucky and blessed to have found him. I came across his page at a time when I was consumed by sadness, heartbroken from a relationship, when I had lost all sense of mental clarity. After only the first session, I immediately started to feel like myself again. Eric helped me reboot my mindset. He helped me to better understand the actions of others. In a sense, Eric helped lead me to acceptance and emotional freedom. I learned things from him that have stayed with me over the years. I still remember certain words he said to me that I still remind myself of in moments of need. I also share these impactful words with others. Eric is the easiest person to talk to, after just a few minutes you feel like you’re speaking to someone you’ve known your whole life. He is such a gentle soul, and he was put on this earth to connect with others on a deep and spiritual level. If you’re looking for a coach, look no further.
Eric is a great coach, highly skilled and extremely knowledgeable. He knows the right tools and resources to help. He is very personable and easy to talk to. I didn't feel judged or restricted in what I needed to say. He just listened and offered great advice. He draws on his own personal life experiences but does it in a way that is unbiased. His ability to add context and offer clear and sound feedback are also some key skills. I highly recommend Eric to anyone who is looking for expert coaching.
When I started working with Eric I was going through separation after a 20 year marriage and I didn't like myself very much. Working with Eric, I learned that it's OK to want to be happy in my relationships and that I have a lot to offer others. Eric gently reminds me of my strengths and how I need to take care of myself when building new relationships. Four years on, I still meet with Eric from time-to-time to remind myself of what I'm capable of.
Before working with Eric, I was stuck—repeating the same patterns and unsure of my next move. He helped me identify my blind spots, set clear goals, and stay accountable. It wasn’t just about relationships—it was about leveling up in every area of my life. Eric adapted to what I needed in real time, making sure I wasn’t just thinking about change but actually making it happen. Years later, his coaching still shapes how I approach challenges and growth.
Thanks to Eric, the former perspective I held of my life's circumstances has been turned upside down by awakening to a very different awareness and perspective on suffering, and has opened me up to new freedom. It has allowed me to refocus on the essentials and helped to identify my needs.
Eric provided a safe space where I could just be and feel. It was exactly what I needed. I have been able to move on with my life, not by burying the past but by processing my feelings about it in a healthy, productive way.
I left feeling like I have learnt something new that I can utilize in my dad to day life. He used tools such as visualization and other techniques that I still use on a daily basis to control my emotions and to help centre myself. Before I met Eric I had seen multiple counsellors and self help professionals, none of them gave me tools that Eric did to help me on a day to day basis. I had issues surrounding anger, resentment and fear and meeting with Eric better helped me to understand these issues and we were able to develop tools to overcome these issues. Eric is genuine in his approach and is was willing to work with me and my individual concerns and develop a plan that was geared toward my success. I recommend Eric to anyone seeking answers about personal development or wanting tools to deal with the daily issues life presents .
Eric helped me to understand and apply liberating perspectives through his direct and pragmatic speech. It is a genuine person who knows how to effortlessly establish a close and warm relationship with his clients. Through working with Eric I could finally understand how I position myself in a limiting way within a relationship and because of this I am pleased to say I have eradicated a formerly toxic behaviour.
Eric is such a wonderful person and an excellent coach. I really thank him for all the guidance and encouragement. He knew exactly where I needed to focus my attention and intentions. He was a great support. Thanks for making a difference in others life, dear Eric. Keep shining.
I don't usually write reviews but I feel the need to express my gratitude for Eric. I asked for guidance and he was so accurate and right about my situation. He provided guided advice and most of all helped me to feel a sense of peace in myself that I haven't felt. I am a different person today because of him. He is truly a wonderful and caring soul. Thank you Eric!
My coaching with Eric was absolutely great ! He guided me through my break up and give me new perspectives to understand myself and my relationships. He is a loving and caring person that makes you feel safe at any moment.. I learned so much about myself, and gain a great sense of confidence ! Thank you for being part of my journey.
Eric is a kind, generous, supportive and enlightened human being. It's always so refreshing to connect with him and receive his insights and wisdom especially on relationships. He is a beautiful example of an awakened man. Thank you so much for your guidance and support. I will be back!
I was impressed how Eric understood my challenges so well. He was spot on about where I am in my life and helped to find clarity on where would be my next steps. I gained confidence, and self-esteem in a way that I would never think possible. After being coached for 6 months, I am a different person, and I love who I became. This was a great rewarding discovery journey.
When I met Eric, I was hopeless, and couldn't see any positive future. Very quickly he helped me with different perspectives to recognize that I have trapped myself in a box. Now I feel in control of my life and I am able to make decisions with clarity. I am more confident and practice every day how to use my strengths. I am clear on how I communicate with others. I am responsible for my life and don't blame anyone anymore. The coaching with Eric was hugely transformative.
Eric is not only a great listener, but he is great at digging to get to the heart of the issue to find a solution. There are several issues that we worked on that I thought would take multiple sessions and a lot of work to get through, but Eric’s insight made such a difference in such a short amount of time. I am really glad that I found Eric and was able to work with him.
I started working with Eric at a point where my life was falling apart. My marriage was failing, I was unhappy with work and I felt like I had no control - my life was something that "happened" to me, rather than some I lived. Eric helped me to understand the thoughts, habits and beliefs that were behind all of these issues, and to find ways to work towards being the person I want to be and having the personal and professional relationships I want to have. The results in my life are very visible - I am becoming more assertive in all aspects of my life, I'm happier with my professional life and how I'm steering it to where I want it to be and, even more importantly, I have been able to begin communicating with my wife at a whole new level and we're slowly rebuilding our marriage on a new, stronger foundation.
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Professional Help
Sometimes, no matter how hard you try, the same issues keep coming up.
Communication feels strained, conflicts go unresolved, or you feel distant and disconnected. These are signs it might be time to reach out for support.
With a fresh perspective, I can help you uncover what’s really driving these challenges and provide practical tools to improve how you connect and communicate.
Together, we can explore the dynamics in your relationships—whether with a partner, family member, friend, or colleague—so you can start making meaningful progress.
Seeking help isn’t a sign of failure; it’s a courageous step toward clarity, healing, and stronger, more fulfilling relationships—both with yourself and the people who matter most.
Relationship coaching is a professional service that helps individuals and couples improve their relationships by identifying challenges, enhancing communication, and setting goals for a healthier connection. It can help you navigate conflicts, strengthen emotional bonds, and build fulfilling relationships.
Therapy often focuses on healing past trauma and mental health concerns, while relationship coaching is goal-oriented and forward-focused. A coach provides strategies, guidance, and accountability to help you improve your relationship dynamics, but does not diagnose or treat psychological conditions.
Absolutely! Relationship coaching is not just for couples. If you’re single, coaching can help you understand your relationship patterns, boost confidence, and develop the skills needed to create and maintain a healthy, fulfilling relationship in the future.
The timeline varies depending on your goals and challenges. Some clients see improvements in just a few sessions, while others benefit from ongoing support over several months. Your coach will help create a personalized plan to ensure meaningful progress.
Relationship coaching can address a wide range of topics, including communication skills, conflict resolution, emotional intimacy, setting boundaries, trust issues, and dating strategies. Sessions are tailored to your unique needs and goals.