How to Co-Create Emotional Safety—Even in Imperfect Relationships
There’s a quiet ache I see in so many people: If only my partner did the work… if they were more present, more emotionally available—then I’d feel safe. And I…
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There’s a quiet ache I see in so many people: If only my partner did the work… if they were more present, more emotionally available—then I’d feel safe. And I…
Most people don’t want to say this out loud, but I will: At some point, you’re going to hurt the person you love.And they’re going to hurt you, too. It…
Boundaries have become the buzzword of modern relationships. Every expert tells us: “Set your limits.” “Say no without guilt.” “Communicate your needs clearly.” It sounds simple. Yet most people who try to set…
Most couples believe they’re arguing about the topic in front of them. The budget. The holidays. The dishes left in the sink. But when you slow down and look closely,…
I’ve been reflecting on something that has shown up again and again—in my coaching work, in relationships, and in my own inner life. It’s the way we so often project…
There’s a moment I’ve witnessed in countless people I work with—and in myself, too. You finally find someone who’s kind. Emotionally available. Present. They listen without interrupting. They don’t walk…
A felt-sense guide to emotional safety—even when your partner isn’t “doing the work” There comes a moment in every healing journey where you realize: I want to show up fully. I’m ready…
There is a quiet moment, often overlooked, that arises in the middle of an argument—a moment when something unseen quietly takes the lead. It isn’t loud or obvious. It doesn’t…
There comes a point in your healing journey where insight isn’t enough. You’ve done the inner work. You’ve sat with your shadows. You’ve journaled, unraveled, reparented, and held space for…
Understanding the psychological forces that drive our behaviors can profoundly impact how we connect with others, both in our personal lives and within broader social dynamics. These internal motivators often…