What Trauma Really Is
We don’t always notice when safety leaves the room. We just adapt. There are moments in life that don’t look traumatic from the outside. You keep going to work. You…
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October 17, 2025
Why Presence Is Underrated
Because true presence doesn’t happen in your mind — it lives in your body, where healing and real connection begin. When was the last time you felt truly present? Not pretending to…
October 16, 2025
Stop Looking for Tips. Start Doing the Work
Why Insight Alone Isn’t Enough to Stop the Same Fights, Breakups, and Patterns I spent over twenty years in therapy and no one ever told me the one thing that would…
September 30, 2025
Stop Trying to Change Your Partner — Start Changing the Way You Show Up
The Illusion of Control At some point in almost every relationship, we fall into the same quiet fantasy: if only our partner would change, we would finally feel better. We…
September 16, 2025
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How to Co-Create Emotional Safety—Even in Imperfect Relationships
There’s a quiet ache I see in so many people: If only my partner did the work… if they were more present, more emotionally available—then I’d feel safe. And I…
September 8, 2025
You’re Going to Hurt Each Other. What Happens Next Matters Most.
Most people don’t want to say this out loud, but I will: At some point, you’re going to hurt the person you love.And they’re going to hurt you, too. It…
September 8, 2025
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Every Expert Talks About Boundaries—But No One Talks About Safety First
Boundaries have become the buzzword of modern relationships. Every expert tells us: “Set your limits.” “Say no without guilt.” “Communicate your needs clearly.” It sounds simple. Yet most people who try to set…
September 8, 2025
When Criticism Isn’t Really About Them
I’ve been reflecting on something that has shown up again and again—in my coaching work, in relationships, and in my own inner life. It’s the way we so often project…
September 8, 2025
How to Know If It’s Safe to Be Vulnerable in Your Relationship?
A felt-sense guide to emotional safety—even when your partner isn’t “doing the work” There comes a moment in every healing journey where you realize: I want to show up fully. I’m ready…
September 8, 2025
It Was Never About the Dishes (Or the Phone, Or the Silence)
There is a quiet moment, often overlooked, that arises in the middle of an argument—a moment when something unseen quietly takes the lead. It isn’t loud or obvious. It doesn’t…
September 6, 2025